Nikolai S Halay:
1. Does sensual desire totally not arise or it does arise but it has no real control over you ?
Clinging is the only thing that is dealt with at 4th path and to a great degree at 3rd path too.
The first arrow is still stuck right in there. One's relationship to desire changes somewhat after 3rd and definitley 4th. But desire still can arise. It's just not clung too like before.
The experience and the experiencer are the same, if desire arises there is always the possibility that it will be clung to. If desire arises it affects you no mater how it is rationalized.
So yes desire occurs and yes desire affects you (or is you). How this affects you changes as you progress in your investigation
2. Does anger ,jealousy and other 'negative' defilement's totally not arise or they arise but they have no control over you ?
They still can arise depending on your own past habitual tendencies, but can be seen ever so clearly to be "not-self". You can choose to react or not.
The very fact that these negative difilements arose means that you have already reacted and the idea that you have a choice is an illusion
3. Do you really have no suffering if anything at all happens to anyone or anybody ? By suffering I mean , will you not feel even a momentary sadness , sorry , lamentation ?
They still arise, they are just seen clearly not to be self. There is only the suffering of the first arrow. Not the second arrow of clinging. There is no clinging. Things arise and can be let go of effortlessly. But things still arise. And in my opinion, the first arrow can be a bitch still. But it seems it can be done away with with further practice.
At what point does it become not effortlessly? While there is a self, a Self, a no self or a True Self there will be suffering.
4. Does your heart race at anything at all ?
The heart racing is a biological response the cause could be either conscious or unconscious or both.
There is more freedom than pre-4th path. But there seems to be more one can do to deal with the 1st arrow post-4th path. 4th path is not the end. No place to rest my laurels yet. ;)
Yes and to be open to this possibility is a huge step for further insight
Have a great weekend
Jeff