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http://www.realization.org/page/doc0/doc0095.htm
Regarding the above, where is this woman on the maps?
Well she didn't do any Vipassana meditation so it'd be hard to put her on the maps. The whole thing sounds like a really hellish Dark Night though. When she said the witness disappeared as well, leaving no self inside, that sounds like what we'd call 4th Path, though by saying that I don't mean she went through 4 paths (not that we do, either; Dan said he went through 37 or something). The fact that she can still be afraid indicates she isn't AF.
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In those few pages, is she describing 'no-self'?
She is literally describing no-self: "The personal self was gone". Though I think she still has a "big Self", the one that goes away upon AF. I mean, if she is afraid, then what is feeling the fear?
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I've always thought that experiencing 'no-self' would be utterly terrifying. She describes it this way, so does Castaneda.
That's probably why one of the Dark Night stages is called "Fear"; probably why the last emotion Stef felt before AF was fear.
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Why don't advanced meditators on here describe it that way? Put another way, who here has experienced what she has, as described on those pages?
I've heard it described that way too... I think Nick or Owen from KFD said something like, "there's no Nick/Owen here".
If you mean why we don't describe it as quite so terrifying - the Vipassana method, unbalanced as it is in general (Dark Night affects us a lot), is a little bit more balanced than what she went through... and we do it willingly.