| | So I won't recount everything I've been doing up to this point since I've posted about it in the past, but I'll just say where I'm at, in hopes that I might get some useful responses, which almost always happens.
I've noticed that after generating enough dispassion, it seems like the highs and the lows (A&P and Dark Night, possibly) are becoming smaller and smaller, more indiscernible. It's like a pendulum that's running it's course, swinging less far to each side each time. There is definitely a sense that nanas are not real, a fabricated thing, and that a lot of the power of the nanas comes from fabrication and effort. I've been working with the "practice as though in EQ" mentality, and if I had to place myself on the map, it'd definitely be in EQ anyways. Things have little momentum or stickiness, and there is generally no trouble with watching a variety of things happen, just "in this space", without preference. It used to be almost impossible to take up the "everything is happening in this space" idea in practice, since things were so this-sided and that-sided, thoughts had so much more weight, and investigation was narrow, in the sense that it was more of just watching one sense at a time, taking one object at a time, investigating one concept (such as one of the 3 c's) at a time. Now I seem to have much less trouble just taking the whole thing in, like seeing my perceived/inferred center point as one blade of grass, and switching the focus to the whole field of grass, gently swaying in the wind, all blades of grass swaying.
The 3 characteristics discussion comes to mind. I pretty much owe my progress up to a recent point in noting with high intensity, and working hard to see the characteristic of impermanence, of which it seems the easiest to "force into view", by way of rapid noting. Note rapidly and with enough energy, and the unstable, vibratory nature of things seems clear, and this is really the thing that used to define being able to cross the hump of the A&P. Then, in 3rd vipassana jhana, unsatisfactoriness becomes increasingly apparent, and this is investigated and surrender after surrender occurs, each level of surrender putting me in EQ, then dropping out of EQ, finding another layer of surrender. Then, in EQ... well... shit. The map terminology would be "stuck in EQ". Pertaining to the 3 C's, this seems to be the point at which no-self seems to need to develop. I have no problem just noting the shit out of everything and making vibrations clear. I have little to no problem with 3rd vipassana jhana and the suffering stuff that comes up, surrendering to it and letting it be apparent. I sense that the missing leg of the tripod is insight into no-self. Vibrations are easy, I just have to put the effort and constant refreshing of attention into practice, seeing unsatisfactoriness is easy, things that suck about the annoying/painful tendencies to grasp obviously suck, and "inviting them over for tea" is all it takes to allow the things to be. Of course, I don't claim a perfect understanding of either characteristic, but what I realize I don't have any capacity to truly see is no-self. Sometimes formless aspects predominate, and sometimes things that seemed to be self disappear, but this can't be insight into self, I think. It's the difference between seeing that something doesn't seem to be me, and seeing right through the core of me, seeing that it is a fiction and truly finding that the center point does not exist.
I already brought this up in the past, but I'll put it here, for continuity. In generating dispassion and letting aspects of selfing run their course and lose fuel, it seems that practicing is exactly the wrong thing to do. Not that I think people should not be doing any kind of inquiry into reality (I haven't heard of anyone getting spontaneously enlightened without doing anything to set it up), but at this point, it seems like practice doesn't do anything, and that practicing is just another faculty of the selfing process. But, if I'm not investigating, not inquiring, I don't just get enlightened. It's a paradox. I know that it will take some effort to get enlightened, but effort seems counterproductive and a continuation of the process of which I'm trying to stop.
My current strategy is in constantly using the viewpoint of "everything is happening in this space", trying to see the whole field of awareness as evenly and indiscriminately as possible, without poking, prodding, peeling, touching, or adding any significance. It involves realizing that dispassion and impartiality aren't choices or methods, but rather the natural state of things, since even the thoughts that imply choice, inclination, and preference are still just objects without an owning object to impart partiality.
My biggest roadblock, the thing that seems like the brick wall, is that the illusion of self still seems to persist, to be perpetuated, even when it seems like there is impartiality to the whole field.
Maybe it's a lack of honesty with myself about what in the field I'm not really impartial to. Maybe it's a lack of clarity about more things in the field, things that are still left unseen. Maybe I could use some sort of adjustment in my practice, maybe there is some way to investigate something that I'm not investigating. I'm totally all ears to anyone who has any ideas, clues, pointers, or the like.
Another thought... I wonder if noting should come back into play. I haven't really been using noting much lately, since noting seems like a very surface level way of seeing reality. Noting makes sense for impermanence, by the fact that if you note fast enough, you start to see the oscillation of the sensations because you're looking at the oscillations rather than the smooth wave seen from a lower resolution. Noting also makes partial sense for unsatisfactoriness, since if you know the practice is surrender to whatever experience comes up, noting puts the sensations that make up unsatisfactoriness on the (dis)assembly line, so you know to drop them, but unlike just seeing vibrations, you have to make a choice to accept the unsatisfactoriness as reality to move on. Noting makes less sense for no-self to me, since it is grabbing at sensations and seeing that they are not the sensations that are doing the process. But in grabbing what seems like to be infinitely many sensations and seeing them as no-self, it still seems like the sensations of self cannot be found, yet the glue of self, delusion, stays intact. Thus, I find that somehow, noting as I am practicing it does not break the delusion of self itself.
Here's the paradox: if there is no self to realize no-self, how can there be any chance of ever flipping the thing for good? If there is nothing to change, if no-self is really the truth, what is there even to flip? If it is all fluctuating, how could anything be solid and enduring enough to actually impart this sense of self? It seems like no-self can't be found even in looking at the sensations that make up self, since even in looking at those, the sense (but for some reason, not necessarily visible sensations) of self still seems to be on the side that is looking at the sensations. It's like trying to point a finger at self. Self seems so tangible, but every time I try, I see the the extended arm that the finger is connected to, extending from seemingly nowhere, and it feels like I'm actually on the side doing the pointing. And if I try to then point at that, the same problem/practice-paradox occurs. I resonate with what Daniel writes about equanimity, in particular:
"Equanimity is much more about something in the relationship to phenomena than anything specific about the phenomena themselves."
Edit: also: "tactlessly and tirelessly I swoop and soar in mangled arcs on dancing sparks at once a saint and whore finding merely bliss beyond compare I despair...
blessed weariness blessed, blessed forgetting a puppy chases its vanishing tail three times and is gone!" That's exactly what this feels like, chasing my tail.
"As formations become predominant, we are faced first with the question of what is watching what earlier appeared to be both sides."
The last quote hits home with me. Mind and body really don't seem to be a problem at this point. There isn't anything in the field that I can discern that I'm being partial to, or that I can discern as self, but it seems like all of that is on the side that this side is looking at. But the duality excludes this side from being part of that side, and looking at this side really just turns out to be looking at that side. I feel the sense that self is on this side, in the field of impartial awareness, but when I look at that sense, it really turned out to be that side, but then I'm at the same point, looking at that side, and feeling on this side. I really do get the sense that I'm starting to get to the very root of it, but I'm very unclear on how to get past the brick wall that seems to be between this side and the other side, as investigation/sense of self are all clearly on that side when I look, but anywhere I look, there is an implied side that I'm looking from. You can't stand across from yourself and look at your face, since by the time you're looking you're now on that side and not the side you were intending to look. It's a blind spot, a blind spot that I'm basically 99% confident doesn't contain anything, (gateless gate) but a blind spot that I can't seem to check regardless. 99% of the field is integrated, but there is this 1% that is assuming the overseer, and I'm not sure what control I have to integrate that, because wherever I look for the thing that is left unseen, the thing that is unseen seems to be behind the brick wall.
So how do I see the whole field of experience at once, without having the blind spot that is the side that sees the whole field? |