| | Hello,
I have been practising for about 5 and a half years now and this is a very condensed spiritual biography. My life before I encountered the Dharma was a complete mess, I'd tried to meditate a few times from a book but nothing much happened. I then took up meditation formally and for the first month I was sitting for 3 hours a day and everytime I sat I was in (samatha) dhyana, having experiences such as losing any sense of my body and being just the sensations of the breath entering my nostrils and a consciousness (whilst doing the mindfulness of breathing). The dhyana died away, but a couple of years into my practice I met a friend who was having some big experiences. He taught me formless meditation and I had some profitable experiences doing that; I felt really vast and as if 'something' was calling me. I was reflecting on the Yogacara mind only position and decided to label everything as mind. This took me to quite a vast space. I then reflected that the 'unconditioned' was 'merely' the world seen without us imposing our deluded mental conditioning onto it and it was as if a pane of glass shattered in front of me and I found myself in a non dual awareness. I was travelling on the train to London and the experience I was having was so beautiful it brought tears to my eyes, the was no real sense of distance between me and Big Ben, everything was the same (shunya) yet completely unique. Cars moved but there wasn't any concept of movement or stationary. Things seemed to hang as if in suspended animation. This lasted about 1 and a half hours.
I kept having strong meditation experiences and 'flashes' of the same sort of experience until, not long afterwards, I had a bigger experience. It was at a celebration of Parinirvana day, and a friend of mine was crying because he was reading a poem that reminded him of his partner dying. As I left the festival I found myself again in a vast space, it felt different though, looking back I think something had snapped (?). It was deeply pleasurable and everything became incredibly still (even though I was walking through a high street) and the suspended animation feeling came back again, my experience of time was strange. I stayed in this state for about an hour, then whilst listening to some music it suddenly broke and huge amounts of bliss, compassion, ecstasy and fearlessness was released. Again it was non dual, there was no sense of 'me' being different from the shirt that was hanging up in my room. Time just flew and what was hours seemed like no time at all. This experience continued through sleep and I awoke feeling like a completely different person. The afterglow of fearlessness remained. I haven't been the same since, it changed me radically the person I was before died and I was reborn. After this experience I vowed to become a Buddha for the benefit of all sentient beings ( a vow I have made many times since). Instinctively I knew it was the arising of the Bodhicitta, that's the framework I placed it in as there is a strong emphasis on the Bodhisattva Ideal in the tradition I practise in and from reading works by people like Shantideva my experience seems to fit what he describes. Since then I have had numerous insights and experiences that happen on a regular basis; things like having the experience of walking and there being no 'walker.' I developed a real grasp of metaphysics and the perfection of wisdom sutras, I knew what they were talking about from direct experience. I know that concepts such as permanence and impermanence are merely concepts that can never really describe Reality. I found myself writing articles such as 'The conditioned nature of Linear time' as well as numerous essays on topics such as Interdependence and pratitya samutpada.
My main practice now is consistently seeing the impermanent, unsatisfactory and non self nature of the five skandhas.
I am finding it quite difficult to integrate what has happened to me, I am astoundingly fortunate to have friends who have had experiences like me and who are further along the path than I am,and I seek out those who I've read about who have had similar experiences. But through just being myself I have started to encounter disbelief and skepticism from others, which I find quite painful. I also think I may have become attached to the experiences I've had and I'm thinking about how I am going to move forward. I have numerous notes from my years of practise and I might start reviewing them, as well as continued meditation practise, to help me progress and integrate what's happened. I read 'Mastering the Core Teachings of the Buddha' and that's what led me to this site.
I would be intrigued to hear any thoughts people have, and thank you for letting me share some of my life story.
Metta, Leigh |