Hi all,
Wow, thanks for all the great replies.
That article was not intended as a way to pigeon-hole women, btw, so if you don't feel it applies to you or the DhO situation I'm perfectly fine with this.
What the text did for me, a few years ago, was to wake me up to the fact that there are ways of experiencing a given situation which I can't even imagine, and also that there are connotations to innocent-looking phrases (like the "this is easy" example in the article) which would never occur to me, for whatever reason.
So, despite my explicit call for feedback from the women around here, I think there are some valuable general points about male-female interaction in the "five hurdles" text, and it would be good for men to know about those.
Also, it's another geeky map to play around with.

Cheers,
Florian