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Reading this thread, I realize that I've been on the receiving end of a related situation in a very different context once. Sentences like, "I want the old you back!" and "Do I need to be worried...
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Yeah, totally. Not "us", "ours" or "ourselves" either. It can easily get even nuttier than the 'horizontal integration' does. Maybe this is the z-axis of all of it?
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Author: Ant_808 "Empathy will ensure that when we hit dissolution, those who love us will experience it too, with regard to our shared "sense of us" and maybe even in deeper ways. The phrase "not...
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let's not forget the sets of axes that encompass the other sets but in various orders.. bzzt!
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bzzzap, right. I'm a bit swamped with activity to the point of not having much time to reflect this week and next. Perhaps you could clarify or expand on that a little, sounds more on target but...
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you know, im not always sure what i meant, and sometimes i not sure if im remembering or im just taking a bunch of pieces and arranging them all together on the spot each moment again, but...
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Author: nails888 I'm going through this right now ( I think I've entered dark night) and I'm trying to avoid "being that guy" by watching my mouth Another way to deal with the situation is, in my...
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foooop...Yeah, I reflected through the day how I was likewise unsure what I meant, something...something beyond the inter-being aspect I guess something inter-elemental and a bit alien feeling but...
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You know, I've never been a dharmvangelist myself. I'm a big advocate of people chilling the fuck out and stopping compulsive worrying (it's called a calendar, or a to-do list. You write down what...
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To give another example, it's like transactional analysis, or really anything of that sort, or say, e.g., R.D. Laing's or Alice Miller's critcism of our institutions. Most people either don't care...
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fwiw... people change and people do change people
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Author: JuliaMay I agree. A female practitioner with a male non-practitioner partner, I get frustrated with the "girl just can't understand" dialogue. In fact, I think I'm the only woman who has...
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Author: telecaster My wife is a Christain with extremely strong faith. And her Christianity has the most gentle, accepting and non-judgmental qualities that I've ever encountered. She really has no...
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I'm late to the discussion, but I just wanted to say this is really helpful and just what I needed to read right now. FWIW - I had a week recently where I was feeling a lot of friction between...
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Yep, right on! I have been reading Hard Core Dharma related materiel for the past two weeks with great abandon and practicing a lot more. I am in a very contagious/evangelical stage right now and...
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I do so love it that this thread keeps getting bumped, as it is really important stuff.
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Fitter Stoke: I'm late to the discussion, but I just wanted to say this is really helpful and just what I needed to read right now. FWIW - I had a week recently where I was feeling a lot of...
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This was useful. I'll do my best to keep it in mind. I remember awhile back I went on a diet-crusade and couldn't stop talking about nutrition and how everyone around me, particularly my boyfriend...
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This is taken from here. #11 really stands out regarding this discussion. The Eighteen Root Downfalls [of Bodhisattvas]. 1. praising oneself and belittling others 2. not sharing with others one’s...
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It looks like you are all letting yourselves off the hook a bit easy. It is no doubt easier to keep all knowledge of meditative attainment to oneself, so dont lets pretend this is necessarily the...
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