Robert Scott Johnson:
Another good way that I've looked at this sort of thing is just realizing that this behavior is where these people's sensate universe has brought them, and indeed we are all just acting upon our nature...
yeah that's what it comes down to. and in the process of integrating that realization with every moment of experience, finding different tools to shake up the old "i should" and "they should" habit of seeing people that sustains the aversion, agitation, disappointment, or anger, which become harder to notice if they have been reduced to very subtle traces but are still evidenced in the feeling "i don't know why i'm so mentally tired from dealing with people all day".
Beoman:
Woe, you see it really vividly!!! a metaphor for the way i experience it looks more like this:
frogaloids