Perhaps this is already in a library, but a sticky in the AF section with these discussions would help diffuse alot of perhaps unneeded angst about AF and what it means.

The way AF is explained in these discussions really is excellent, especially the comments that AF is the fulfilment of the affective message, that the emotion is being answered in it's longing with the actual experience it desires, and so being ultimately fulfilled, no longer rises..brilliant!

http://www.interactivebuddha.com/files/01%20TandDonAF1.mp3

http://www.interactivebuddha.com/files/02%20TandDonAF2.mp3

Thanks to Tarin and Daniel for making it freely available. It sounds like there has been alot of money being spent at points in this story (plane trips etc) and it is an act of true compassion to make the results of that exploration available without charge.