
nothing wrong with healthy sexual desire. Nothing at all. At times the sex drive is low and then if lights up again. And it goes in cycles just like the Maps

I find it very stupid how Buddhist try to alienate Sex and our very much human existence. Its such a normal human function , and not just human but of many beings sharing this Ecosystem with us.
Sure one could go all into maybe not having kids or maybe just one as there are many people on this Planet but has nothing to do with sex being a bad thing to try and eradicate it.
Of course sex impulses can be unhealthy as well either for oneself or others involved and such could be worked on with a help of a psychologist.
But if you want a very good teaching on being more mindfull/aware of sexual senstaion then this woman (link to video bellow) is the best bet if you ask me that is. If Im not mistaken she might be coming from the Map of Insight territory. Maybe some of you know more about her.
Get to know the sexual impulses well just like we do in Mahasi Noting, getting to know it to its bare bones by using it as an object of meditation (its your mind perceiving it and its your body to sense it, no one esle can do this for you). Thats how things get clear. Going into thinking about it being something bad and comparing it to all the holes in the body is not the best way to do this in my opinion. I mean my 4 year old boy still enjoys eating his own snot. he relly loves it so much that he now hides from us to enjoy that snack

I actually know grownups that still do it. They dont find it disgusting. I mean there are folks that have nothing but delight for feaces and urin so for them focusing on the 9 holes would be just a stronger delight etc ... etc ... etc ...
Here is her vid on how to go about it and its a very human normal way of going about this issue. Integrate your meditation into your sex life just the way you do it into the rest of you life. BTW she also wrote a book on this subject that you can find in the vid describtion I think. Check some other vids of hers if you feel like it. Hope Im not stepping overboard as all this is just my point of view and can be discarded of course.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1N0YQ_tL4qM