Alright, let me sift through the responses, one by one:
@Daniel: My responses to your criteria-
1) Yes, very different, walking-around experience
1i) I don't know if I feel that "things are happening on their own." Things are not sticky, they come and go. The causality in them is way more obvious than before. But the "me-ness" in them is also obvious, but is just another causality, albeit a more constant one. There are a few exceptions, which are obvious (such deep-seated, negative self-beliefs underlying trains of obsessive thought). To summarize, I can feel volition, but it is just another, naturally arising and passing sensation.
1ii) I very much resonate with the "awake where they are" notion. My a/c is buzzing three feet from me, and my mind is physically registering it three feet away. There is also some synesthesia as I feel the sound, rather than just hearing it. My depth perception is changed, all the time. The sky seems lower, or I seem higher/taller. Things are either farther away or closer. All this is feels very pleasant, integrated and fine in its suchness. When I experienced such reality-warping perceptions in the past, there was a slight tension as part of my mind was resisting it. Now my mind is just chill, with it, its all good. No need to change.
2 &3) I can see why the jhana criteria are weak. I think the point isn't whether or not the jhanas I experienced (during Ron's diagnostic tests) were soft or highly fabricated, but the fact that my mind was malleable enough to do so and the fact that the things it could create/reach toward were as subtle as make-believe PL or NS. So, even if my jhanas were bs, they reveal a certain, new quality of my mind. I can state, with confidence, that this quality was not there before the 3rd Path moment. In fact, since after SE, I have been feeling closer and closer to jhana at the drop of a hat. It feels like my mind is already halfway to 1st jhana in its openness when I close my eyes while not meditating. The veil separating the "me" from those deeper levels of mind is much thinner.
Thank you for priceless two cents. I wouldn't be suprised if you and Ron found that you guys were talking about the same territory if you two sat down and spoke for an extended period of time.
One last question: Where is the significance of the Review phase? Review A? Review B? How do the presence or absence of such symptoms factor into your method of dharma diagnosis?
@Pawel: Interesting write-up. Further clarity on your model, and how it may or may not differ from others. I admire the strict standards. I do feel the sense of the 3rd jhana thing currently. There is some weird, trippy, warping to my perception taking place, which feels like that cool-cave sensation of the 3rd jhana. I agree that the forum could benefit from more long descriptions from Daniel, but I would guess that it gets tedious over time.
@Jenny: I also only feel agencylessness in certain moments. I don't feel like it has to be that prominent all the time, or at least I would use different words to describe it: I would note how everything is cause and effect, everything has one-taste, nothing is framed by anything else, there is no center point of caring. To me, these things are more prevalent.
It seems very possible that I am missing something about the "atemporality" of perception. Its not really about time for me right now, its just about ease of being and the spontaneous arising of all things, but not necessarily the lack of a point a and point b. Maybe we are talking about similar phenomenon, or maybe not. I definitely vibe with the whole luminosity, awareness-in-the-object thing.
Jenny, thank you so much for all your work on the book. I second your notion of including all possible information from the gold mine of Daniel's brain! The 4 path model can be incredibly helpful, especially under the guidance of a teacher and in the care of the watchful and balanced yogi who is using it. Please understand this and kindly help us get as much information as possible (despite your personal preference). Thanks again

That quote about reality already being synched was trippy and really got me.
@Fitter: Yes, I agree that Nick's post was super helpful. Showed profound insight into the fish-out-of-water nature of this path, especially late in the game. Ron gave me some helpful warnings about the potential frustrations going from 3rd to 4th.