Continued...
I know people say this a lot, especially here in this community, but I consider it highly likely that I have been a Dark Night yogi for around 17 years (since the age of 14). But whether or not I am in fact being gripped by the Dukkha Nanas, or simply have a dark bent to my naturaly personality (always a possibility!), projections, negative fantasies and hateful assumptions constantly arise and challenge my equilibrium. They can interfere with my ability to relate well with others, as I can and do change rapidly from a kind and patient man to a disturbed and nihilistic one. I wish to attain to a less reactive stage of insight, and become more willing or able to tolerate what I currently, in the arrogance of self-doubt, perceive as laziness or stupidity on the part of those around me who do not understand what I am saying to them about the impermanence of everything around us.
I feel a strong need to get closer to my practice and am considering a retreat at MBMC for a month, perhaps two months.
So, on to the question, finally. I'm humbly asking for any advice from those on DhO who have experience of long retreats, and who understand that "stuff" can really throw one's practice if the dedication is lacking (mine is not, but I do have quite a lot of "stuff" going on right now).
Given that it is a time of some turmoil in my personal life, would it be wise to undertake such an ambitious retreat? Instinctively, I feel that it would not only quiet the racing thoughts of having had a marriage breakup, but also may help me come unstuck from the general racing thoughts I live with every day.
Sorry for the really long post. I guess I got a bit carried away opening up about this stuff finally

I have been lurking on this site for weeks, and I have to say I am filled with gratitude that this community even exists.
Thanks again,
wildlings (Cam)