Self as Other - Discussion
Self as Other
Paul Anthony, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 20:04 27/12/17
Created 6 שנים ago at 20:04 27/12/17
Self as Other
פרסומים: 71 תאריך הצטרפות: 22/06/10 פרסומים אחרונים
Hi all,
I'm not really sure where this topic should go but it seems broadly related to the Stages of Insight. I'm quite interested in vivid experiences of the self as being a third person. This is sometimes called "third person talk" or "illeism" in western psychology. Also, it's often conflated with problematic experiences such as depersonalization and dissociation, but I'm not really talking about that. Also, I would suggest that this is distinguishable from the knowledge of non-self, though others may see it as related. It's really just a spacious, vivid, flexible distancing from the conceptual Self - an ability to view the Self with curiosity and wonder. I find that it crops up during formal practice and outside.
Has anybody found this coming up in association with a particular stage of insight or even jhana? Is it what is sometimes referred to as "the witness"? All perspectives are welcome.
Thanks, Paul
I'm not really sure where this topic should go but it seems broadly related to the Stages of Insight. I'm quite interested in vivid experiences of the self as being a third person. This is sometimes called "third person talk" or "illeism" in western psychology. Also, it's often conflated with problematic experiences such as depersonalization and dissociation, but I'm not really talking about that. Also, I would suggest that this is distinguishable from the knowledge of non-self, though others may see it as related. It's really just a spacious, vivid, flexible distancing from the conceptual Self - an ability to view the Self with curiosity and wonder. I find that it crops up during formal practice and outside.
Has anybody found this coming up in association with a particular stage of insight or even jhana? Is it what is sometimes referred to as "the witness"? All perspectives are welcome.
Thanks, Paul
Adam M, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 09:58 29/12/17
Created 6 שנים ago at 09:58 29/12/17
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 51 תאריך הצטרפות: 07/08/17 פרסומים אחרונים
I'm not sure about the exact definition of illeism but it does sound simliar to what I think of as the witness state. Certainly deeper concentration makes it easier to get into that state during meditation. It can then be used as a foundation for developing vipassana and moving through the insight stages. I found the witness state would come about in waves during daily life as I moved through equanimity and became stronger and more permanent as things progressed. I am quite interested though in how it develops for people as they move through the higher paths and how it relates to future insight stages.
Paul Anthony, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 19:31 30/12/17
Created 6 שנים ago at 19:31 30/12/17
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 71 תאריך הצטרפות: 22/06/10 פרסומים אחרונים
That's great, thanks Adam. I'm intrigued by the witness state b/c while I hear about it a lot but it's usually not clearly defined and (If I remember) is not mentioned in MTCTB. One older Western psych reference is The Observing Self: Mysticism and Psychotherapy by AJ Deikman.
Dream Walker, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 22:02 30/12/17
Created 6 שנים ago at 22:02 30/12/17
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 1770 תאריך הצטרפות: 18/01/12 פרסומים אחרוניםPaul Anthony:
That's great, thanks Adam. I'm intrigued by the witness state b/c while I hear about it a lot but it's usually not clearly defined and (If I remember) is not mentioned in MTCTB. One older Western psych reference is The Observing Self: Mysticism and Psychotherapy by AJ Deikman.
Dunno if this is what your looking for...
~D
Adam M, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 06:51 31/12/17
Created 6 שנים ago at 06:51 31/12/17
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 51 תאריך הצטרפות: 07/08/17 פרסומים אחרונים
That's a helpful llink dreamwalker. It's a shame the link to Kenneth Folks' stuff doesn't work now. Does anyone have a link to a more detailed description of Kenneth Folks second gear practice about questioning the witness and methods to get into the witness state? I'd love to know more about Kenneth's 3 gear viapasanna method.
Paul - that link gives a description of what I see as the witness state i.e. the experience of a disembedded self just observing phenomena without being affected by them. Like most states, the description doesn't do it much justice. I remember when I first firmly got into the state, I found it really fascinating.
Paul - that link gives a description of what I see as the witness state i.e. the experience of a disembedded self just observing phenomena without being affected by them. Like most states, the description doesn't do it much justice. I remember when I first firmly got into the state, I found it really fascinating.
Chris M, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 08:41 31/12/17
Created 6 שנים ago at 08:41 31/12/17
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 5423 תאריך הצטרפות: 26/01/13 פרסומים אחרונים
Adam, is this some of the material you're looking for:
http://kennethfolkdharma.com/2013/02/what-is-the-three-speed-transmission/
http://kennethfolkdharma.com/2009/07/the-three-speed-transmission/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCV4MBuW3Y8
http://awakenetwork.org/forum/100-dharma-refugees/7715-the-witness
http://kennethfolkdharma.com/2013/02/what-is-the-three-speed-transmission/
http://kennethfolkdharma.com/2009/07/the-three-speed-transmission/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCV4MBuW3Y8
http://awakenetwork.org/forum/100-dharma-refugees/7715-the-witness
Paul Anthony, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 17:06 03/01/18
Created 6 שנים ago at 17:06 03/01/18
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 71 תאריך הצטרפות: 22/06/10 פרסומים אחרונים
Adam, that does just about cover it, all except the use of "it" to describe the observed entity. My experience is usually one of subjectivity, but displaced and observed as opposed to a subjectless process. I've tried noting processes as described here and I would say there is a subtle difference in emotional tone. Fascinating stuff!
Adam M, שונה לפני 6 שנים at 17:23 04/01/18
Created 6 שנים ago at 17:23 04/01/18
RE: Self as Other
פרסומים: 51 תאריך הצטרפות: 07/08/17 פרסומים אחרונים
Yeah. I've started practicing it again recently. Have to admit that it is confusing me a lot. I'm not sure that it really is directly related to insight stages. More a conditioned state based on concentration and practice that can be used for insight. I think I might be confusing different states. Oh well, I'm sure it'll become clear to me once I've made more progress on insight. Glad you posted this actually. I'd been neglecting the witness thing for a while and glad to resurect the practice.