In actuality, I had some kind of hand spasm which hit three or so buttons and published a post without anything aside from "T"
Then time goes by with their new perspective on "duh" as things settle and life becomes "easier" and they work their way into "that shit is actually funny. Can you believe...? Wow. This is it and it always has been." They simply let go of anything controlling it and just "let 'er rip!"
Total acceptance is freedom. Total acceptance is finding the joke funny. I think the preferred term, now that I've written that out is "radical acceptance."